'Men treat us like we aren’t human': The Indian girls fighting back

As India tries to combat the issue of sexual assault, girls in New Delhi are taking up free self-defence classes taught by the police.

Schoolgirls in a self-defence course run by the Delhi Special Police Unit for Women and Children at a secondary school in New Delhi, India, April 10, 2018.

Schoolgirls in a self-defence course run by the Delhi Special Police Unit for Women and Children at a secondary school in New Delhi, India, April 10, 2018. Source: The New York Times

The schoolgirls ran into the auditorium, shouting, “Let’s go, let’s go,” in Hindi as they ushered one another into single-file lines. Some adjusted the big, red bows that held their braids together, part of their school uniform. Then they crouched into defensive postures, fists ready.

“Oss!” they yelled — a karate greeting combining the Japanese words for push and persevere.

They bowed slightly to their mentors before unleashing a series of punches, karate chops and kicks, interspersed with occasional giggles, whispers and sheepish smiles.

“Do not laugh!” Police Constable Renu, who like many Indians goes by one name, called from the stage above them, her white T-shirt emblazoned with “Respect Women” on the back.

“Do you think they will laugh when they attack you?” she asked. “You must strike back with anger.”
A police constable, right, demonstrating a hold at the self-defense camp.
A police constable, right, demonstrating a hold at the self-defense camp. Source: The New York Times
Girls doing drills in a self-defense training camp at a New Delhi police barracks in January.
Girls doing drills in a self-defense training camp at a New Delhi police barracks in January. Source: The New York Times
The girls stifled their smiles, their fists pummeling the air faster, with more determination. This was their seventh self-defence class, and they were feeling confident enough, many of them said, to do the unthinkable: stand up for themselves.

Renu has been teaching this free, 10-day course hosted by New Delhi police — a combination of karate, taekwondo and judo moves — for the past eight years in the city’s public schools and universities.

The initiative, with classes taught by several female officers, also includes summer and winter camps for women, and a course called “gender sensitisation for boys,” a lawyer-led course that teaches men how to help women in trouble and how to be more respectful to them in public spaces.

It’s about making them “feel responsible towards girls and women,” Renu said.

Booked solid for the next six months, Renu said she has never been busier, as anxiety among women and girls grows with a stream of news headlines describing brutal assaults across the country, including recent national outrage after an 8-year-old girl was kidnapped, gang raped and murdered.
Commuters aboard a women-only subway car, in New Delhi, India.
Commuters aboard a women-only subway car, in New Delhi, India. Source: The New York Times
Since a 23-year-old woman, Jyoti Pandey Singh, was beaten, gang raped and fatally injured while riding a bus in the capital in 2012, women here have been on edge.

That attack prompted intense soul-searching and a fierce public debate about an issue that, though long pervasive, was seldom addressed. It also gave many women the courage to come forward and demand justice in such assaults, rather than suffer in silence, too ashamed to speak up.
A girl registers for a self-defense training camp outside a police barracks in New Delhi.
A girl registers for a self-defense training camp outside a police barracks in New Delhi. Source: The New York Times
On a recent Tuesday morning, at the Navjeevan Sarvodaya Kanya Vidyalaya school, widely known as NSKV, Renu led about 180 girls, ages 11 to 17, through possible scenarios of men grabbing them from behind as they walked down the street, striking a blow to their heads or lunging for their necks.

In each case, the girls responded with the moves they had been taught to deflect such attacks — grunting, kicking and punching in unison.

“The first move we teach them in the class is how to make a full-throated cry for help when they are attacked,” Renu said, explaining that the girls tend to be reserved, making it hard for them to make the ruckus needed to alert others that they are in distress.

“To be able to make such a sound is empowering in itself,” she said.

A newcomer to New Delhi, I have been struck by the caution I’ve been advised to exercise, and the grim warnings issued. A few weeks ago, I took my young son to a public park, watching as he gravitated to a young boy who was being tended to by his grandparents, visiting from Kolkata. They spoke about their frequent trips to the capital to visit their daughter and her children.

“Thank God we have grandsons — Delhi is no place for a young girl,” the grandfather said, his wife nodding in agreement.

The sentiment struck me not as sexist, but as one of genuine fear, as they listed their concerns and nightmare scenarios.
Constables lead a self-defense training camp run by the Delhi Special Police Unit for Women and Children.
Constables lead a self-defense training camp run by the Delhi Special Police Unit for Women and Children. Source: The New York Times
Back in the classroom, Mona Shamsher, a 16-year-old student, showed me her favourite move as she crouched into a sumo-squat, a two-fisted punch to the gut.

“I like it because it’s good for my height,” she said.

“For an uppercut punch, I’d have to jump like this,” she chuckled, as her small frame, no more than 5 feet tall, leapt into the air to strike an imaginary attacker.

Since her older sister was assaulted while walking alone in their neighbourhood last year, Mona said, she had not felt safe on the streets until this month, when her school offered the self-defence course.
An Indian housewife, Suresh, took part in the training camp.
An Indian housewife, Suresh, took part in the training camp. Source: The New York Times
“At this time, girls aren’t safe,” she said. “Men treat us like we aren’t human.”

But she added, a clenched fist grinding into the palm of her open hand, “this gives me confidence.”


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Published 17 April 2018 1:38pm
Updated 17 April 2018 1:44pm
By Maria Abi-Habib © 2018 The New York Times
Source: The New York Times


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